Bob Morris noticed some changes in his elderly father’s behavior: he started keeping his car clean, his manners improved, and a new “lady friend,” Arlene, had a noticeable impact on him.
Arlene cared deeply for Bob’s father, but she made it clear to him that she did not want to take on the responsibility of taking care of him when he got sick, nor did she want to marry him despite his insistence.
Anna Martin delves into Bob’s father’s last love story and speaks with Arlene about the misunderstood marriage proposal and the limits of love.
This episode contains mentions of suicide. In case of suicidal thoughts, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255.
The Modern Love podcast is hosted by Anna Martin and produced by Julia Botero, Christina Djossa, Elyssa Dudley, and Hans Buetow. Sara Sarasohn is the editor, and Jen Poyant the executive producer. Sophia Lanman does the mixing, and Maddy Masiello is in charge of recording. The show features original music by Dan Powell and Pat McCusker, with the theme music by Dan Powell.
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